Advent

Greetings, Favored One!

Luke 1:26-38

In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent by God to a town in Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin engaged to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. And he came to her and said, “Greetings, favored one! The Lord is with you.” But she was much perplexed by his words and pondered what sort of greeting this might be.

 The angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. And now, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you will name him Jesus. He will be great, and will be called the Son of the Most High, and the Lord God will give to him the throne of his ancestor David. He will reign over the house of David forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.”

Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I am a virgin?” The angel said to her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be holy; he will be called Son of God. And now, your relative Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son; and this is the sixth month for her who was said to be barren. For nothing will be impossible with God.” Mary said, “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her.


“Greetings, favored ones! The Lord is with you.” 

When was the last time anyone talked to you that way? Let alone an angel of the Lord?

Mary was as perplexed about it as most of us would be, it sounds like. She wasn’t the type anyone would have thought to be “favored,” after all. Let alone an angel of the most high God, for crying out loud.

She was poor. And a girl. In a man’s world, and in a no man’s land somewhere in the middle of Galilee, from some place called Nazareth.

When we read that she “pondered what sort of greeting this might be…” in my head, that means she “wondered what in the heck this was all about?,” and “who does this guy think he is?,” and, even more, “who does he think I am?”

And after a little explaining … something about the Holy Spirit coming upon her … something about being over-shadowed by the power of the Most High God … something about conceiving a child, naming him Jesus … and something about how he would reign as the Son of God, forever from the same throne as David, the greatest king of all time…

After all of that – and a little something about her Aunt Elizabeth, too – somehow, Mary buys it. … or consents to it. … or resigns herself, perhaps, to whatever this is. “Here I am. The servant of the Lord. Let it be with me according to your word.”

But it all started with those words, “Greetings, favored one. The Lord is with you.” 

First of all, it’s a reminder about just exactly who God favors: the least among us, remember. The poor, the outsider, the outcast. The last, the lost, the lonely. The sick, the imprisoned, the hungry and thirsty. The sinner, in need of forgiveness, mercy, hope and the love of God.

“Greetings, favored ones. The Lord is with you.” But, again, who talks like that? Who believes stuff like that – about themselves, enough of the time? And about the world and the people around them, too?

I came across an old devotional this week that my Dad wrote several years ago about a time he noticed a lonely stranger in the New Palestine McDonald’s. It seemed clear this guy was counting the change in his pockets to see if he had enough to afford, even a Senior Coffee, which isn’t something that happens often in our small town. So my dad bought him a meal, too, and sat down to eat breakfast with him, and listened to his story – things about a divorce, some estranged children, a lost job. It was all a gift and a blessing for this stranger, I’m sure. Not the coffee and the pancakes, but the conversation and someone who cared enough to engage it. The man thanked my dad and told he had sat there some days actually praying for someone to talk with. “Greetings, favored one. The Lord is with you.”

It made me think of a story Oprah Winfrey tells about being a poor little Black girl, in nowhere Mississippi, back in the deep – and deeply racist – South, of the 1960’s. I think it was the wife of the Governor at the time, who came to Oprah’s school or church for some assembly or event. (It’s been awhile since I’ve heard the story.) But the point is, that from among a sea of other little Black boys and little Black girls, this wealthy, powerful, well-dressed white lady bent down, looked little Oprah in the eye and told her what a beautiful girl she was.

For a poor little Black girl who thought that her nose was too wide, that her lips were too big, that her skin was too dark, and who knows what else … it mattered that someone like that thought someone like her was beautiful – and went out of her way to say so. “Greetings, favored one. The Lord is with you.”

I remember visiting Trinity Lutheran Seminary, across the street from Capital University, when I was just an undergrad – a long-haired, mullet-sporting, probably hungover or on-my-way-to-the-next-party kind of undergrad – when the Seminary President, Dennis Anderson, asked me – without a hint of irony, or sarcasm, or good-humor – when I thought I was going to come across the street and start studying there. I was perplexed. I laughed it off. But he suspected that the Seminary and I might be good for each other. Who knew? “Greetings, favored one. The Lord is with you.” 

Some of you have heard me talk about Angels around here before – especially during the seasons of Advent and Christmas. And I like to remind myself – and whoever will listen – that angels don’t always have wings or wear halos or sing on key or glow like the sun. “Angel” just means “messenger,” remember, nothing more and nothing less. Someone with good news to share, like that someone who showed up for Mary, way back when.

And, I guess what I’m getting at is, I hope you can think of an angel or two in your own life who has called you “favored,” and encouraged you in a meaningful way… and empowered you to do something greater than you thought you could… or loved you in ways that were surprising and made you feel worthy and worthwhile, even if you didn’t believe that yourself or know you needed it at the time.

And if you haven’t heard or felt or believed that before, hear it now: “Greetings favored one. The Lord is with you.”

You are beautiful. And loved. And called by God to be beautiful and to love the world in return for what has already been poured out for you in the gift of Jesus Christ that is on the way.

Later this afternoon, I will baptize Holden Michael Hagerty – the son of Brandi and Brady Hagerty, Grandson to Tony and Kelley Holden. We’re doing it in a small, safe, socially distanced, invitation-only kind of way because of the virus, of course. But, I want you to know about it, because baptism is our way of saying – to the world around us, as a community of believers – “Greetings favored one! The Lord is with you!” It is something that has been declared on behalf of everyone who has been baptized. And it is said, too, for those who have yet to make it to the water.

“Greetings, favored ones! The Lord is with you.” It is the message and gift and blessing and the promise of Christmas for the sake of the world.

The Lord has always been, the Lord is, and the Lord will always be on the way to find you and forgive you and encourage you and walk with you and welcome you into the good graces of the Most High God, by whom you are favored – each and every one of you, in spite of yourself, in spite of your sins, in spite of what the world has to say about it. And you are destined … each of us is destined … if we will let God’s will have God’s way with us … for eternal things on this side of heaven and beyond … because nothing is impossible with God.

Amen. Come, Lord Jesus.

Rejoice Always

1 Thessalonians 5:16-24

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. Do not quench the Spirit. Do not despise the words of prophets, but test everything; hold fast to what is good; abstain from every form of evil.

May the God of peace himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be kept sound and blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do this.


Today is a special Sunday in the season of Advent known as Gaudate Sunday -- gaudate, from the Latin word for “rejoice.” In other words today is “Rejoice Sunday” -- a day to be filled with joy. And so we have scripture including the final part of Paul’s first letter to the Thessalonians in which he writes, “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

So, go ahead, be joyful. Show that you’re joyful. No one else can see you, so go ahead and do a fist-bump with a family member, raise the roof, hoot and holler, do the wave...go on, I’ll wait. 

It wasn’t so long ago that we were together worshipping in the sanctuary, so I can imagine how that would have gone if we were in-person today. I think a good number of you would have played along. It’s not entirely out of the question that we could have gotten a wave going in the sanctuary! 

But things just feel different this year. Joy isn’t the first emotion that has been saturating my heart or expressed in my behavior. Gaudate Sunday or not, I don’t think it feels like a day to rejoice. I know I’m not alone. I’ve listened to you share of your pain and frustration over these last few months. I know you’re mourning loved ones, missing the way things used to be, and anxious about the future. I feel that way too, and I know I’m not the only pastor who feels this way. Pastor Mark and I serve as leaders for Indianapolis-area pastors. We gathered online for our monthly meeting this week and noticed a heaviness as pastors shared their pain, frustration, and exhaustion. And we know we’re not the only profession who is struggling...not even close! I don’t know if we want to get into ranking what professions have it worse these days, but healthcare workers and teachers are definitely towards the top of that list. 

So, where is joy in our world today? Where is joy when a loved one is struggling or has died? Where is joy when the world seems dangerous? Where is joy when your work is unfulfilling, or you can’t find work at all? Where is joy when the financial, emotional, and physical demands of life seem to be more oppressive than ever? Where is joy in the midst of a global pandemic?

In order to answer that we need to understand what we’re talking about when we’re talking about joy. 

Joy is not necessarily a huge smile or a loud cheer. Those are expressions of happiness. We tend to conflate joy with happiness. Despite happiness having primacy in the United States’ Declaration of Independence (as in, “the pursuit of…”), happiness is a very small, limited, and conditional emotion. It’s only possible to be happy if you are not sad. 

Joy, on the other hand, can exist along the whole spectrum of the human experience. It’s possible to experience joy when you are happy and to experience joy when you are sad.  It’s possible to experience joy when you are struggling and to experience joy when everything seems to be going your way. It’s possible to experience joy in the midst of a global pandemic.

It’s possible to experience joy in all these experiences because in all these experiences, God’s promise of grace and love is being constantly declared to you. Wherever you find yourself on the spectrum of human emotion, n Christ God has been at work reconciling the world to himself, not counting your sins against you (2 Corinthians 5:19). The creator and redeemer of all that is, seen and unseen, is completely in love with you.

True joy is not dependent on the circumstances of your life; instead, it bubbles forth out of a much deeper and dependable well. Think of a time that you participated in a mission trip, or spoke with someone who returned from a mission trip -- such as our trips to Fondwa, Haiti. You likely noticed this refrain, “Despite having very little, they were filled with joy.” That’s because true joy is not dependent on the circumstances of your life. True joy, like grace, is a freely-given gift of God. It surrounds you at all times, like the air around you, and merely has to be breathed in.

Literally do that. Take a breath. Inhale and exhale. That you just did that is nothing short of a miracle. In the midst of all the complicated emotions that swirl around in our minds and hearts, we tend to forget the sheer improbability of the fact that we get to experience them at all -- that we are here at all. We’re alive. You did nothing to earn the gift of life. It wasn’t a reward for a job well done. We don’t need to dig too deeply into reproductive science to remember how the odds were stacked against every one of us from the very beginning. And here we are. Alive in a world full of beauty and possibilities, living our “one wild and precious life,” as the poet Mary Oliver famously called it.

It’s perfectly ok to feel sad, or lonely, or lament that life isn’t quite what we had been accustomed to. But joy can live alongside those real emotions. Joy because we can feel anything at all. Joy because God loves us and is working in us through it all. 

There’s no path, equation, or action plan to cultivate joy; we simply have to breathe in and out and recognize the sheer gift that it is to be alive. Our call is to enjoy what we have while we have it -- be present to the present moment. Our call is to rejoice always, pray without ceasing, and give thanks in all circumstances.

This difficult year is almost behind us. COVID-19 vaccines will be delivered and administered starting tomorrow. Heath workers are telling us even though things are going to get worse in the short-term, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Once this pandemic experience is behind us, I wonder if we will have learned the myriad of lessons it has held out for us, socially, medically, politically, and emotionally.  

My hope is that we would emerge from this experience having learned and experienced that true joy is not dependent on our external circumstances, that God is not just with us but FOR us in every moment, that each breath is a gracious gift of God full of possibilities. 

May it be so. Come, Lord Jesus. Amen.