Lent

Grieving Well - The Sorrows of the World

Matthew 6:25-34

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air; they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And can any of you by worrying add a single hour to your span of life? And why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not clothed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which is alive today and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear?’ For it is the Gentiles who strive for all these things; and indeed your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But strive first for the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. “So do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries of its own. Today’s trouble is enough for today.


“The Sorrows of the World” sounds pretty ominous and like a whole lot of ground to cover, I know. If I were to ask you to wonder about what we might be invited to tackle tonight, under that banner – “The Sorrows of the World” – I suspect you might guess things like war and poverty and sickness and disease and drug culture and gun violence and racial injustice and more, right?

Well, the good news is we’re not going to go down all of those roads tonight. Instead, I’d like to take “The Sorrows of the World” quite literally. So, I’m inviting us to grieve for the world … for creation … for all that God has made … and how its sorrow – that of the planet we call home – inspires our own sadness and impacts our own grief, whether we always realize that or not. And that’s enough trouble for today, as Jesus would say. “Today’s trouble is enough for today.” Today’s grief – this very particular grief – is enough for tonight.

Because, National Geographic has reported, that 90% of the oceans’ fish populations that were around in 1950 are no longer, and that a crucial mass of the world’s stock of fish may very well run out by 2048. (That’s within my lifetime, if I’m lucky. I’ll only be 75 years old. My son, Jackson will be 44. Max will only be 41, both younger than I am now.)

According to the World Wildlife Fund, there was a 52% decline in wildlife populations between 1970 and 2010. In those 40 years, more than half of something like 3,000 species of not just fish, but mammals, reptiles, amphibians, and birds have been decimated thanks to global warming, pollution, and disease. On our wall, the kids and families tonight - before dinner and worhsip - put some fruit bats, some catfish, some mussels, some honey creepers, all creatures that went extinct in 2023.

So, when I was reading one of the books that inspired much of this midweek series on GRIEF – I’ve mentioned it before, The Wild Edge of Sorrow, by Francis Weller – I was particularly moved by the way he describes our souls’ innate, spiritual, bodily connection to the world around us. (Francis Weller is a therapist and counselor who does a lot of work with people – as individuals and in groups – around grief.)

Anyway, about our grief for creation and “the sorrows of the world,” he says: “Whether or not we consciously recognize it, the daily diminishment of species, habitats, and cultures is noted in our psyches. Much of the grief we carry is not personal, but shared, communal.” And he sites a psychologist named Chellis Glendenning, who has gone so far as to call all of this “Earthgrief” and she says, “To open our hearts to the sad history of humanity and the devastated state of the Earth is the next step in our reclamation of our bodies, the body of our human community, and the body of the Earth.”

Now, Weller doesn’t attach any of this to Scripture or faith, necessarily, but it helped me to think about the creation story in Genesis differently. We get so caught up, too often, in the details of the creation stories – how there are two versions of creation in Genesis, for instance, and that they tell very different stories about how it all came to pass. And we wonder whether we should understand them literally or as prehistoric poetry, for example.

But, I think it may be enough to focus and reflect on a Truth our creation stories try to tell: that we are, all of us – men and women, birds and bugs, fish, flora, fauna, stars and sand – created from the same dust; and that we are, therefore, bound together by the source of life we understand to be God, the creator of the universe. And that when one or some of what God has created suffers, we are all – each of us – bound to that suffering, in a cosmic, spiritual, practical and holy way.

And, just when I was wondering if this Francis Weller guy might be a little too “new age-y” or esoteric or “spiritual, but not religious” enough; I came across this bit from an encyclical published by Pope Francis, himself, where he said, “Thanks to our bodies, God has joined us so closely to the world around us that we can feel the desertification of the soil almost as a physical ailment, and the extinction of a species as a painful disfigurement.” (Pope Francis, The Joy of the Gospel [Evangelii Guadium], no. 215) Again, this is a grief we know and feel, in our being, whether we always give it words or attention or credit for the impact it has on us, or not.

And, honestly, the more I thought about this, the more I realized I didn’t need Francis Weller or Pope Francis to tell me this.

When I was in elementary school and fishing off the dock at my Uncle Charlie’s house in Celina, Ohio, I caught a nice-sized carp at a family gathering. The thing was huge, I could hardly lift it, but I don’t think anyone even thought to take a picture. While I was impressed with myself, and learned that no one in their right mind – in the great state of Ohio, anyway – would eat carp for dinner, I was scandalized when my uncle demanded that, instead of throwing the fish back into the lake from whence he came, we dig a hole and bury it alive, instead. It was a trash fish, I was told, and did more harm than good, wasn’t good for anything, and all the rest. Which I kind of understand. But again, I felt sorry for that damned fish as it died in the dirt!

A few years later, my friend Dave and I were visiting my grandparents and found an old BB gun that belonged to my mom and her siblings when they were kids. We did what many young boys would do, of course. We tested it out … shooting at trees and cans and bottles and whatnot. Until I saw a perfectly innocent robin in the field across the street. I was as surprised as Dave to see the feathers fly when I killed the poor bird in one clean shot. I didn’t even need the scolding I got from my grandfather to feel some much-deserved shame and sadness for what I had done.

My point in all of this is to say, I think it’s true that we experience grief for the hurting world – in our bones, in our bodies, in our spirits, and our souls – whether we’re always aware of that or not, but certainly when it is called to our attention, by way of random facts from our Pastor on a Wednesday evening in Lent; or when we hear about the latest, wildfire in Texas, which was breaking news when I woke up this morning; or when we see something as common as road kill; or when our imagination invites us to wonder – not just about the human homes and lives lost in places like Gaza and Ukraine – but when we wonder, too, about the natural habitats that are also destroyed; the air and water that are poisoned; the terror of the birds, bunnies, and beasts of all kinds, who also dodge bullets and bombs; who are also left homeless, limbless, lifeless, orphaned, and more.

This “Earthgrief” is real, it seems to me. And all of creation seems to groan and grieve right along with us, as Paul suggests.

So, I chose tonight’s Gospel reading a bit facetiously. I think I know what Jesus means, but also wonder if the birds of the air are more worried, these days, than they may have been when Jesus was around. I wonder if the lilies of the field really are toiling and spinning in ways they haven’t always.

And while I’d love to make this a call to action, reminding us about our command to care for creation… to restore and replenish what we use up from God’s good earth… to compel us all to give up plastic, limit our carbon footprint, reduce, reuse, recycle, and all the rest… I wonder if we might first, actually have to simply acknowledge our grief over it all. (Again, today’s trouble is enough for today.)

So I hope that the things we’ve left on the wall this evening do nothing more and nothing less than bear witness to our part in what makes us grieve and God’s creation groan; and to our shared sorrow for the suffering planet we call home; for the creatures and creation God calls “good,” and for that which is ours to tend to, at God’s command.

And I pray, too, that – as we engage all of this season’s grief – we can do it deliberately … grieve the sorrows of the world, I mean … because our faith gives us hope that it will all be redeemed, according to God’s goodness and grace, in the end.

Amen

To Die For

Mark 8:31-38

Then [Jesus] began to teach them that the Son of Man must undergo great suffering at the hands of the elders, the chief priests and the scribes, and be killed and on the third day, be raised. He said all of this quite openly. And Peter pulled him aside and began to rebuke him. But Jesus, turning and looking at the disciples rebuked Peter, saying, “Get behind me Satan! For you are setting your mind not on divine things, but on human things.”

Then he called the crowds, together with the disciples, and said to them, “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For what will it profit them if they gain the whole world and forfeit their life. Indeed, what would anyone give in return for their life. If anyone in this adulterous and sinful generation is ashamed of me and of my words, so will the Son of Man be ashamed of them when he comes again in the glory of his father with the holy angels.”


I’ve been curious about and captivated by the death – and presumed murder – of Alexei Navalny, the Russian activist, lawyer, and political prisoner, who dropped dead in captivity just a week or so ago. If what so many believe to be true, is true, the bold, brazen way his death came to pass, is another terrifying example of who Vladimir Putin is and how his Russian regime operates. I don’t know enough to comment on the politics of it all with any wisdom or detail, so I won’t. But Navalny’s dedication to his cause in standing up for justice and in the face of an oppressive, power-hungry, president, is admirable.

And I’ve read some things from Navalny that indicate much of his work as an activist for justice and against corruption is rooted in his Christian faith. I’ve read that he was once quite a militant atheist, but that now he’s a believer, and that his faith has been the source of constant ridicule from many of his friends and colleagues in the Russian Anti-Corruption Foundation. His faith was also, apparently, a comfort and an encouragement for his life and work in the world. And, in light of that kind of stubborn faith, it’s meaningful to know that Navalny once said, “The world is made up not only of good and evil, but also of those who do nothing.” And he has also said, “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good people to do nothing. So don’t be inactive.”

And it seems like Navalny’s words – and the life they inspired in him – got him killed, in the end.

Which reminds me of something Martin Luther King, Jr., said once: “There are some things so eternally true, that they are worth dying for. And if a man has not discovered something that he will die for, he isn't fit to live.”

It may be too much – or too soon – to suggest that Alexei Navalny and Martin Luther King, Jr., belong in the same hall of martyrs. But their passion for justice, their willingness to stand up to the powers around them, the fearlessness with which they seemed to live – and their shared faith in Jesus – can’t be separated from the words we hear from Jesus this morning, when he teaches the disciples that the Son of Man must undergo great suffering, rejection, and murder, and that if you really want to follow him you should take up a cross and do the same.

Well, I’m no Alexei Navalny, no Martin Luther King, Jr., and I’m no Messiah, either. But I did see the Indigo Girls, in Dayton, on Friday night. (I mean that to sound like those Holiday Inn Express commercials, where they act like staying at a Holiday Inn makes you smarter. I think that may actually be true where the Indigo Girls are concerned, but I digress.)

Anyway, one of their lyrics came to mind in light of this gospel and King’s words and Navalny’s death. The lyric is, “There must be a thousand things you would die for. I can hardly think of two.” It’s a love song. And it’s about one person’s awe and admiration for another, so it’s not supposed to be about Jesus at all. But, it made me wonder about what he’s up to today.

“There must be a thousand things you would die for. I can hardly think of two.”

I think today’s Gospel means to make us wonder just what it is we might be willing to die for.

See, Jesus has just come out to his disciples as the Messiah. And he’s talking about what that means – the idea that the likely result of his faithfulness to God’s call on his life will lead to his own rejection, his own suffering and, of course, his own crucifixion and death. He’s not saying that you have to die to follow Jesus, necessarily. He’s just saying that if you’re doing it right – “if you want to become MY followers” – you better be ready for the struggle and the suffering and the death that could very well come along with it.

And Jesus knew that people – especially comfortable, privileged, powerful people – would be suddenly unsettled and afraid and threatened and angry because of all he was up to. He was about to upset the apple cart of the status quo in every way.

The cross about to be foisted upon Jesus comes to him because he’s about to come for the rich and the powerful. And because he’s about to raise his voice for the least and the last, for the outcast and the outsider.

Jesus is healing people who shouldn’t be healed. He’s loving people who shouldn’t be loved. He’s welcoming people who some would just as soon keep out. He’s forgiving sins believed to be unforgiveable. Jesus is about to pull no punches, give zero you-know-whats, lay it all on the line and let the chips fall where they may.

And the biggest chip to fall is himself – and he wants others to know what they’re in for if they really choose to follow him… if they mean it… and if they do it right.

“There must be a thousand things you would die for, [Jesus]. I can hardly think of two.”

And I wonder if that’s what was going through Peter’s mind when he tries to stop him – when he tries to quiet him down after saying the quiet part out loud. Sometimes I think Peter was just worried people would leave the fold if they knew what the risks were. Sometimes I think Peter was just trying to protect Jesus from all of that suffering. Sometimes I think Peter just can’t believe that this is the kind of Messiah God would be – one that suffers, one that gets crucified, one that gets killed. What kind of God is that?

But I also wonder if Peter doesn’t want Jesus talking this way – promising so much struggle and sacrifice and death – because Peter wasn’t up for all of that, himself.

“There must be a thousand things you would die for. I can hardly think of two.”

And I wonder if we – like Peter – fool ourselves into pretending that following Jesus means giving up chocolate or beer or Facebook for Lent; or that discipleship means praying more, or reading our Bibles, or showing up for worship. And those things are good and righteous and faithful and nothing to sneeze at, don’t get me wrong. But they are nothing more and nothing less than tools and faith practices meant to prepare and to move us toward something much greater.

All of our worshiping, learning, and serving… All of our fasting and praying and giving… are about preparing our hearts and our minds and our lives to be able to recognize and to facilitate the Kingdom of God in our midst – for our sake and for the sake of the world – even if it’s hard sometimes – and expecting it to be.

All we do in the safety of our homes and with our families and through our congregation is meant to reveal the way things are (unequal, unfair, unjust for too many, too much of the time) while knowing about how God would rather have things be (equitable, fair, merciful, just, loving) so that we will do something in the name of Jesus to bring the latter – the stuff of the Kingdom – to pass. And, again, that can be risky business if and when we do it right.

People with money – maybe that’s you and me – don’t like to be told they should give it away.

People with power – maybe that’s you and me – don’t like to be told they should share, or even relinquish, it.

People on top – maybe that’s you and me – don’t like to make room for others or to imagine their own place at the bottom.

Preaching that could get you run out of town, which happened to Jesus. Protesting in the name of that could get you hauled into court, which happened to Jesus. Teaching that could lose you some friends and get you betrayed, which happened to Jesus. Embodying that, could get you crucified, killed, and buried, all of which happened to Jesus, just like he promised it would.

“There must be a thousand things you would die for. I can hardly think of two.”

And Jesus did – he died – so that we might come close to giving more, to loving more, to sacrificing more, to suffering more for the sake of others, and for the good of the cause. Because even when we fall short – as Jesus knew we would, and as God knows we do – the cross never gets the last word.

“The Son of Man must undergo great suffering, yes … and be killed, yes ... and on the third day be raised.” YES. And “…on the third day be raised.”

And that’s where we find our hope to do what God calls us to. Not many of us are as bold, or as brave, or as faithful as the likes of Alexei Navalny, or Martin Luther King, Jr., or Jesus. We don’t all have the courage or the calling or the love within us to sacrifice and suffer and die for the sake of bringing God’s kingdom to pass on this side of heaven, no matter how badly the world needs it.

So we look to that cross, even if we’d never climb up there ourselves. And we look for the empty tomb, too, because we will find ourselves there one day. And we give thanks that even when we don’t, God does… even when we won’t, God will... even when we haven’t, God already has.

And we keep following Jesus as nearly as we’re able – testing our own boundaries, pushing our own limits, risking our own comfort, safety and security, maybe – to see, as Dr. King put it, “the eternal truth” of God’s grace for which Christ died – and lives – so that we, and the world around us, will too.

Amen