invitation

Come and See

John 1:43-51

The next day Jesus decided to go to Galilee. He found Philip and said to him, "Follow me." Now Philip was from Bethsaida, the city of Andrew and Peter. Philip found Nathanael and said to him, "We have found him about whom Moses in the law and also the prophets wrote, Jesus son of Joseph from Nazareth." Nathanael said to him, "Can anything good come out of Nazareth?" Philip said to him, "Come and see." When Jesus saw Nathanael coming toward him, he said of him, "Here is truly an Israelite in whom there is no deceit!" Nathanael asked him, "Where did you get to know me?" Jesus answered, "I saw you under the fig tree before Philip called you." Nathanael replied, "Rabbi, you are the Son of God! You are the King of Israel!" Jesus answered, "Do you believe because I told you that I saw you under the fig tree? You will see greater things than these." And he said to him, "Very truly, I tell you, you will see heaven opened and the angels of God ascending and descending upon the Son of Man."


There’s been a lot of talk over the past few months about my son Kyle’s upcoming birthday. Mostly, Kyle has been the one talking about it a lot over the last few months. Not only does this occasion make us think about presents to buy and cake to bake, it also helps Lindsey and I remember that cold day in January in Paducah, Kentucky, when Kyle was born. 

I remember how I couldn’t wait to share the news when each of my children were born. I called both sets of parents, sent text messages to friends, and posted pictures to Facebook as soon as I could. By the time I returned to work I had a picture album that I brought to the office to show everyone. 

Making an announcement like that is a unique experience. It is news that we simply have to share; and we never think or care about how people will respond. So many other times when we convey information to other people we wonder how they will respond to it. But not so with a birth announcement. We’re so happy and so confident our baby is the most beautiful one ever born, that we share the news without much thought.

I’d like you to take a moment to think about a time in your life when you felt compelled to share news without thinking how anyone would respond. Perhaps it was when you bought your first car or house; when you became engaged; etc. 

There’s a wonderful example of this in today’s Gospel. In the beginning of Jesus’ ministry, he finds Philip and calls him to follow. And he does. And not only does Philip follow Jesus but just as importantly, he is compelled to go and tell someone else about Jesus.

Philip tells Nathanael, who, apparently, seems like a guy with quite a negative attitude! Nathanael, if you recall from today’s gospel, makes a smart aleck remark about nothing good coming out of Nazareth – a town that people view from afar with disdain and prejudice, as if the people from there are less than human or at least unworthy of welcoming to their town. (Which just might be a sentiment one could still encounter in our world today....ahem...say, perhaps in relation to Africa and Haiti...ahem.)

Surely Philip knew that Nathanael would react negatively to his invitation. We can assume they were apparently good friends; after all, aren’t good friends usually the first recipients of our good news? Philip probably figured that he would scoff, or make fun of him, or ignore him all together. But Philip goes and tells him anyway. Apparently this news was too good not to share, especially with such a good friend.

And I think what's just as admirable is Philip doesn’t throw up his hands in exasperation in response to Nathanael's dismissive remark. He doesn't retort something back, as I think I might. Or get defensive, as I know I would. Or walk away hurt or angry, vowing never to share anything with Nathanael again. No, he doesn't do any of these things. Instead, he just takes it in stride and answers, "come and see." 

The good news of the story is that Nathanael overcomes his prejudice and bigotry. If his heart had proven completely hardened against the people of Nazareth; if he held so tightly to his worldview and infantile understanding of God, he would have missed out on the salvation that had just entered his life. 

So, Nathanael goes and sees…albeit reluctantly. And his life is forever changed once he too meets Jesus.

“Come and see.” Such simple, open, and inviting words. Words, I think, that sum up the Christian calling. “Come and see” is the only fit response when you encounter Jesus and fall in love. These are the words we are compelled to share with others who are seeking something more from life.

Now, my initial impulse was to let this message conclude with a comment about how we need to invite people to our church. That our worship experience should compel us to go out and invite friends and neighbors to join us on Sunday mornings. More importantly, that we should be compelled to invite without any regard for how people would respond. 

And while that message is true, it actually misses the more important point of the gospel. You see, Jesus was never concerned about filling the pews or getting warm bodies into the temple or putting more coins in the offering plate. To suggest that these should be the primary goals of our Christian life would be downright disrespectful to the truth of the gospel and Christ himself.
Don’t get me wrong, as a leader of a congregation, I like the idea of higher attendance, warm bodies, and more offering in the plates. And those are things that I work on. But as your pastor, my primary responsibility is help you identify God’s active presence in every aspect of your life. 

Once we understand that God is as organically a part of us as our skin, or our eyes, or our hearts, then we can embrace the love of a God who created you and leads you through life.

And once we embrace God’s love and presence in our lives and encounter transformation ourselves, then we have no choice but to tell others about our faith and invite them to experience and embrace the love of a God for themselves. 

As a leader of an organization I do want you to go and invite people to become a part of this church. But as a follower of Christ, what I want more is for you to go and invite people to meet Jesus and be transformed by him - to come and see.

It’s one thing to invite people to church; for many people it’s even harder still to talk about our faith. But, in the end, we don’t have the choice -- the news is so good that we simply have to share it, especially with the people we care about. And if they aren't interested, or dismiss what we're saying, or make some smart aleck response, like, “What good could come from Cross of Grace,” that’s okay. 

We know that the good news of God's love for us and all the world can be hard to believe. We can understand that this news is so good it may seem too good to be true. So it's okay if they're not sure or walk away. It's not our job to convert, just to invite. 

“Come and see.” Over time, with practice, these are words anyone can say. Philip said them. We can say them. Maybe not right away, but over time, with practice, these are words all of us can say... and eventually might even enjoy saying. Because sharing something that matters to you with someone that matter is, as Philip found out, is what life is all about.

Amen

"Put On Your Sunday Best" – Matthew 22:1-14

Matthew 22:1-14

Once more Jesus spoke to them in parables, saying: “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who gave a wedding banquet for his son. He sent his slaves to call those who had been invited to the wedding banquet, but they would not come. Again he sent other slaves, saying, ‘Tell those who have been invited: Look, I have prepared my dinner, my oxen and my fat calves have been slaughtered, and everything is ready; come to the wedding banquet.’ But they made light of it and went away, one to his farm, another to his business, while the rest seized his slaves, mistreated them, and killed them. The king was enraged. He sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city. Then he said to his slaves, ‘The wedding is ready, but those invited were not worthy. Go therefore into the main streets, and invite everyone you find to the wedding banquet.’ Those slaves went out into the streets and gathered all whom they found, both good and bad; so the wedding hall was filled with guests.

“But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing a wedding robe, and he said to him, ‘Friend, how did you get in here without a wedding robe?’ And he was speechless. Then the king said to the attendants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ For many are called, but few are chosen.”

 

-----------A lot gets lost when sermons are read rather than heard, which is why I will make it explicit that the first half of this sermon is scarcasm!-----------

 

I'd like to begin today’s message by telling you that every Sunday I get a good long look at each one of you and I judge you based on your appearance.

To be honest, I’ve always thought it was kind of a personality flaw on my part; but when I read today’s Gospel message I realized that Jesus wants me to notice how you are dressed and treat you accordingly.

Right?!?!

In today’s parable Jesus tells us about a king who throws a wedding banquet for his son. All the guests decline the invitation and resent that they were invited in the first place. So the king kills off all the original guests and opens up the party for everyone who wouldn’t otherwise be invited – the outcasts of society. And all of society’s outcasts are invited and welcome to the party. There’s only one tiny catch…those outcasts had better wear the right clothes to the party!  

This parable says that we have been invited to the party, but if we’re not dressed for the part, we will be humiliated in front of the other guests and thrown out on the street where we’ll cry our little eyes out and be left all alone; which means that the moral of the story is that God’s unconditional love and acceptance actually does have one condition – the quality of our outward appearance.

Perhaps you hear this as good news. After all, just about all of us already use factors such as appearance to determine how we treat other people: clothing style, haircut, hair color, glasses, wrinkles, tattoos, piercings, what kind of car they drive, what kind of house they live in, who they live with, etc. And here we are with Biblical assurance that we are right to judge people, especially based on such superficial things.

So, at this point we have a decision to make. Either we all start showing up on Sunday dressed in our finest clothes and continue feeling justified in judging other people based on how they look…or we decide to take another look at this parable and find its underlying truth.

Which would you prefer? Trusting in your clothes get you to heaven…or discovering the deeper truth of Jesus’ message?

I hoped you would choose that one. Let’s try this again.

-----------------(end of scarcasm)--------------------

I want to begin today’s message by assuring you that despite how this parable sounds, it is not about clothes! Jesus does not give a lick about what you wear and Jesus certainly does not permit us to judge and mistreat others based on their appearance. How can I say this when the scripture seems to argue the opposite point? Well, there's the verse from Matthew chapter 6 where Jesus says,
“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?”

 And there’s my favorite verse of scripture, Micah 6:8,
“What does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” (no mention of wearing nice clothes!)

So if this parable is not about clothes, what is it about?

This parable is about the acceptance or rejection of Jesus and how God’s grace affects our hearts and minds.

This parable was originally directed to the high priests and religious leaders. And, similar to the parable we examined last week’s, Jesus was reminding the religious leaders that they are subject to God’s judgment and punishment based on whether they accept or reject Jesus.

Now the phrases “accepting Jesus” and “rejecting Jesus” need to be clearly understood. We not talking about merely saying “I believe” and then carrying on with our lives as if God’s call upon us has no discernible effect. Accepting Jesus is not an one-and-done event; it’s not the day we were baptized, it’s not a single prayer. Accepting Jesus means that we radically re-orient our lives around those things which were important to Jesus – forgiveness, justice, loving the unlovable, speaking hope in the midst of despair. It’s a daily dying to our selfish selves and rising to the new life promised to us as we daily remember our baptism.

And I assure you what we wear is not important to Jesus.

Elsewhere in the New Testament, the writers use the phrase “putting on new garments” as a way to talk about the new life we have in Christ – a new life characterized by repentance and forgiveness. People don’t get tossed out of Jesus’ party for not wearing the right clothes; rather, they get tossed out when they simply show up but fail to be authentic disciples of Christ.

Simply accepting the invitation to the party – simply showing up – is not enough.

Living as a disciple of Christ demands more from us than intellectual belief or emotional trust; and certainly more than simply showing up to share God’s love with others only when it is convenient to do so. Instead, living as a disciple of Christ invites us to merge our behavior and actions with the teachings and life of Jesus every day of the week.

As a Christian, it is not enough for us just to show up. Rather, we must take our gifts, talents and abilities and use them for the benefit of our brothers and sisters in Christ.

God’s grace is boundless and inclusive, but it is also demanding; it demands our whole life.

This is a difficult passage with a simultaneously uplifting and somewhat dismal message. Martin Luther once said about difficult passages that we must squeeze them until the good news drips out.

Well, the good news is that we are outcasts, but Jesus saw it fit to invite us into his kingdom. We took Jesus up on the invitation and each day we are presented with dozens of opportunities to overcome our selfish obstacles and share God’s life-changing love with others.

Even when we fail to live into the new, gracious and glorious reality of life with Jesus; even when we find ourselves back on the streets, looking in on the wedding banquet festivities, the invitation is re-extended.

So come, feast on forgiveness and freedom, and party on.

Amen