Pastor Cogan

We Still Have Time

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Luke 16:19-31

“There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. And at his gate lay a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, 

who longed to satisfy his hunger with what fell from the rich man’s table; even the dogs would come and lick his sores. The poor man died and was carried away by the angels to be with Abraham. The rich man also died and was buried. 

In Hades, where he was being tormented, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham far away with Lazarus by his side. He called out, ‘Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, for I am in agony in these flames.’ But Abraham said, ‘Child, remember that during your lifetime you received your good things and Lazarus in like manner evil things, but now he is comforted here, and you are in agony. 

Besides all this, between you and us a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who might want to pass from here to you cannot do so, and no one can cross from there to us.’ 

He said, ‘Then I beg you, father, to send him to my father’s house— for I have five brothers—that he may warn them, so that they will not also come into this place of torment.’ 

Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the prophets; they should listen to them.’ He said, ‘No, father Abraham, but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’ He said to him, ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.’ ”


The world was supposed to end on Tuesday. It was the latest prediction of the rapture to gain notoriety. 

Pastor Joshua Mhlakela from South Africa claimed he received a vision from Jesus that September 23—maybe the 24th—would be the day the holiest of God would be taken up, leaving the rest behind for the seven years of tribulation. So either it didn’t happen, or none of us made the cut: you decide.

What circulated around the internet this week, especially TikTok, were the great lengths some went to prepare. One man said, “I won’t need my car.” So he sold it. I wonder what dealership he visited over the weekend.

There were multiple reports of people quitting their jobs. One couple left a $1,900 tip for their Uber driver because they wouldn’t need the money, implying, of course, that the driver would.

But the response I found most fascinating was a woman who left a guide on what to do before being whisked away: unlock your phone, write down all your passwords, leave Bibles around, and write a note about why you were selected, and what others could do to be taken up after the seven-year tribulation.

I don’t believe in the rapture, and I’ve preached on that before. I’m not bringing this up to make fun, because for some people, anxiety about when—or if—they will be taken is crippling. What a dreadful fear that must be. 

I bring this up because it raises a deeper question: What does it take for someone to repent? To change their mind, their heart, their life, here and now? That’s what the woman on TikTok was after as she left notes and Bibles. And that same question lies at the heart of today’s parable: What will it take to repent?

After being away from the lectionary for two months, I was hoping for a less challenging text. Not challenging because it’s hard to understand, but challenging because its meaning seems so crystal clear: if you suffer in this life, you will be rewarded with good things in the life to come. If you receive good things in this life and do not help others, you will suffer in the life to come.

But I don’t think this parable is primarily about the afterlife or how to get there. The hyperbole, extremes, and exaggeration are all there to tell a memorable story. They grab our attention, which is the goal, because above all, this is a parable of warning—and of hope.

It is through this lens that we meet the rich man, set up as someone so wealthy we can’t even identify with him. That’s why he remains nameless throughout the parable. 

Every day he donned the finest clothes and feasted extravagantly. He lived in a way that made sure everyone knew he was wealthy. And it worked—that’s how Lazarus came to be at his gate. The text implies that Lazarus was brought and laid there intentionally. Townspeople likely thought, “Surely this man, who is so rich, will do what Jewish teaching says and take care of him.”

Lazarus was clearly in need: lying on the ground, hungry, covered in sores. The only source of companionship and care came from the dogs, who licked his wounds. All the while, the rich man came and went, passing Lazarus at his gate, never lending a hand. Even the dogs realized what the rich man could not: people who are poor and in pain need help.

After they both die, the story shifts to the rich man’s perspective. Tormented in Hades, he looks up—and to his shock sees Abraham, with Lazarus right beside him. He thinks, “I know him! That’s Lazarus. Abraham can send him to help me!”  In that moment, two truths become clear.

First, the rich man knew Lazarus - called him by name. He had become acquainted with the poor, sick, hungry person dying at his gate—and still did nothing. 

Second, and worse than that, even looking up in Hades, he still saw Lazarus only as someone beneath him; fit to fetch at his command: first a drop of water, then to warn his brothers.

The sad, enraging thing is that the rich man still doesn’t grasp why he ended up in torment. His concern is only for sparing his brothers, not for relieving the suffering of the countless people without food, shelter, or care.

And yet, he is convinced! If a ghost were to visit them, like Marley in A Christmas Carol, perhaps those scrooges could be saved from the same torment that awaits him. But Abraham repeats, “They have the commands from Moses, they have the prophets, and they did not listen to them. What makes you think hearing from the resurrected will change anything?”

What Abraham says to the rich man, he also says to us. We are the rich man’s siblings. And the parable does for us what the rich man wanted done for his brothers: it brings us a word of warning from the resurrected one. So we must ask: What will it take for you to repent? 

What will it take for us to repent—not only as individuals, but as a society?

We already have what we need, no? We have the commands of Moses: love God, love neighbor, care for the immigrant, the impoverished. We have the voices of the prophets. Amos says it plain: Woe to those stretched out on beds of comfort, lounging without a care. Woe to those who feast on the finest meats, who drink wine by the bowl and drench themselves in luxury, yet never pause to grieve the ruin of their neighbors, never shed a tear for the suffering of people.

And still, Lazarus waits at our gates—here, today, in our own community.

Today Lazarus is the child whose family lost SNAP benefits and doesn’t know where dinner will come from because over the summer, our elected officials cut snap benefits by billions of dollars.

Today Lazarus is a single mother here on the east side of Indianapolis, stretching herself thin after the On My Way Pre-K funding was cut in half. Families living far below the poverty line now have even fewer options for their children. Cierra, a single mother of twin boys, explained: “With all the shortages, it’s making us single moms work longer hours and find more money. Daycare costs are going up, but the help is going down.”

These are just a few examples of policies and funding cuts that save a dollar but create more Lazaruses laying at the gates, camping behind walmarts, and standing in line at the food pantries. 

What will it take for us to repent? A note from the raptured? A word from the prophets? The teachings and life of the resurrected Jesus Chirst? We have them all. 

The hope in all of this is that we still have time. We still have time to learn the names of our neighbors who are struggling—and to help them. 

We still have time to call on elected officials to enact policies that lift up the Lazaruses among us, not give more money to the rich man; to care for this beautiful creation God has entrusted to us; to be generous with the resources, money, and talent God has given each of us. 

We still have time as a church to imagine how, over the next twenty-five years, we can grow our mission and ministry—not just our building—to better serve a community in need of God’s grace. 

If you are wondering where to begin, we have options here: 

  • contribute to a meal for Agape, our ministry serving sex workers on the east side; 

  • sign up to help with our food pantry or donate a couple bags of food; 

  • give to Project Rouj and help build homes in Haiti; 

  • join our Racial Justice team and learn what so often leads to a Lazarus lying at the gate in the first place.

We still have time to live as God’s generous people, to love our neighbors, and to care for this world we share. 

We still have time. After all, the world didn’t end on Tuesday. Amen.

Asking for a Friend - How can we hold onto our Shared Humanity in a Divided World?

Matthew 18:21-22

Then Peter came and said to him, “Lord, if my brother or sister sins against me, how often should I forgive? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy times seven.


I loathe physical therapy. Thanks to having the back of someone 3x my age, I have been quite a few times in the last ten years. Everytime I go, I am paired with a guy about my same age but who is in impeccable physical condition, which already makes me feel worse. Then they put me through a circuit of ridiculous exercises, things with bands, an impossible balancing board, and stretches that make me feel like something could snap at any moment.

Exasperated, after throwing a ball against the wall while balancing on one leg, I asked, ‘What in the world does this have to do with making my back feel better?!’ My therapist said, ‘Your low back is weak. We can strengthen it some, but not much. Instead, if we focus on everything else around your low back, your hips, your core, your flexibility, then the pain will start to go away, but not entirely. You’ll be able to function, just not fully; your discs are too damaged. So focusing solely on your low back will never bring the healing you want. You have to focus on everything else around it.”

Now talking about my woes with physical therapy may seem like a non sequitur to the final question in our series: How do we hold on to our shared humanity in a divided world? But I promise it will come back around. So stay with me.

One thing among many I have loved about this series, Asking for a Friend, is that all of the questions have been timely; relevant not just to our life together, but to much that is happening in the world around us.

Today’s question is one we all want an answer to. The questioner had more context: they said, “as we get more and more divided, it seems like faith communities are pushing further and further to the extremes. In doing so, we lose the ability to see our shared humanity. What do we do? How do we move forward”?

Division and conflict have become a staple of American life. And that’s not just an anecdote, though I am sure you have your own story. According to Pew Research Center, compared to similar nations,we Americans hold much deeper divisions within nearly every facet of society: politics, race, and even agreement on basic facts.

Ironically enough, polarization is now a defining feature of these United States.

Faith communities are no different, especially along partisan lines. These days it’s more likely that the way someone votes determines what church they attend than their theological views. Which means, more churches are becoming homogenous in their political beliefs, more people are leaving churches from political partisanship, and there are fewer and fewer purple congregations. For the most part, churches are not sorting themselves, they are already sorted.

And in just the past two weeks, headlines have piled up calling this moment an inflection point—a crisis. It sure feels like it. Unity? Seeing our shared humanity? It seems nearly impossible—for churches, for the nation, let alone the warring parts of the world. So what do we do? I think we, as a church, go about unity like physical therapy.

It may sound counterintuitive, but if unity is the goal, don’t focus on it. If we insist on “being united”, if we tell ourselves and others, “we are a united congregation,” we won’t be—and everyone will end up disappointed, or worse.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer once wrote, “He who is in love with his vision of community will destroy community. But he who loves the people around him will create community wherever he goes.” The same is true of unity. If we love the idea of unity more than the people in front of us, we’ll never achieve it.

This is exactly what allows a group like Zeitouna to exist. Zeitouna is a group of six Jewish and six Palestinian women who, despite deep divisions, have learned to see each other’s shared humanity. For over twenty years, they have gathered in each others’ homes every other week, sharing dinner, and engaging in intentional Dialogue. They listen not to formulate a response, but to understand the other’s point of view. Their goal is not to come to an agreement. How could they?

Instead, they work on creating shared understanding—by listening, speaking from their own experience, slowing down, and pausing more. They focused on so many other things, not just the issues. And only then were they able to see one another for what they truly are, human. Irene, a Jewish member, said, “My heart has been opened to those who scare me.” Wadad, a Palestinian member, said, “Through Zeitouna I’ve learned to hear the voice of the ‘other’—her pain and her joy—realizing it mirrors my own.” They never chased unity itself. They focused on other things, and unity formed along the way.

Instead of chasing unity, let’s focus on our shared humanity, on forgiveness, and on grace.

Now, in the church we love to say that every person is made in the image of God. And that is true. But if we stop there, we can fool ourselves into thinking that image means we are inherently good, virtuous, capable. Scripture, and our experience, say otherwise. Paul reminds us that “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” The image of God in us is real, but like funhouse mirrors, it is fractured and distorted.

So what do we share, really? We share our limits. We share our failures. We share our tendency to mess things up and let each other down. Our weakness, not our strength, is our common ground. And friends, that might sound like bad news, but it is actually quite the opposite. Because when you stop expecting other people to be more virtuous, more stable, or more capable than you are—you find yourself a little less disappointed. A little more patient. A little more compassionate. It frees us to meet one another not with unrealistic expectations but with grace.

But that also means we will need to forgive, and to do so often. Like Peter, we ask “how often”? More than we want to, more than what seems right, honestly more than we think we can. Because it’s not so much that someone will wrong you 490 times, but that it might take 490 attempts at forgiving one offense before we’ve really done it.

All of that is hard. Which means, if we are going to see our shared humanity, forgive one another, and live as a functioning community, it will only be out of gratitude for the grace of Jesus, who has already done all of that for you and always will. When we dwell on the grace poured into our lives, it spills over—flowing from our hearts out into the world, giving others the mercy and love Jesus has already given us.

Just like physical therapy, if unity is the goal, focusing on it will only lead to more pain, disappointment, and ultimately division. Because we will, and likely already have, let each other down.

But I am asking you to stay. Stay even when there’s disagreement, stay when feelings are hurt, stay when it feels easier to walk away. Because if we leave every time, we miss what Jesus is capable of through forgiveness and grace.

So let’s focus on those things now: on shared humanity, on forgiveness, on the grace already given to us. And then by the mercy of God and the work of the Spirit, unity will begin to take shape. It may not be perfect. The pain may not entirely go away.

But we will be able to function.

We will be able to live together as God’s people.

And we will have hope for the unity that is to come to all people, through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Amen.